Behavior is a Language
Behavior is a language.
That’s it.
I will say it again… Behavior **IS** a language!
A promise can be well intended. A promise can be the first step in a communicative relationship process.
Behavior shows the completion or follow-through of the intention or promise.
Completion is different from perfection. Don’t ask for perfection. Set a boundary that requires follow-through.
How many times are you going to accept a promise or stay in a situation that shows you intention without completion?
The choice is yours. It’s not an easy choice, but it is a choice from the heart. You deserve follow through. You deserve the whole, not just half.
You got this. Keep going. Keep listening to your heart. Keep watching. Keep feeling. Get past the words/promises and watch the behavior too.
And always remember… Behavior is a language.
Peace be with you always!